These are the ways to make people like you and didn't talked bad behind your back.
1. You must have car. People like it when you can drive them around. Then they will forget other people that doesn't have anything(like me).
2. You must shares the same interest with them, if people likes to read novel then you must like it too. If you didn't like to read it, you cannot join any conversation on novel and eventually will not be able to a join any conversation on anything at all. And then been forgotten just like that.
3. You must not be yourself. You must transform into a person that people will like. If not you will die alone.